I can't help with #1, possibly could help with #2, but definitely am here for you on #3. I bring you EWP's Gift Guide. Every day this month (or whenever I get time), I'll post a gift option. They'll mostly be in the EWP vein of products - clothing, accessories, fashion maven awesomeness.
[EWP DISCLAIMER -- Please do NOT use the EWP Gift Guide as a shopping guide for EWP. Odds are I already have the item or something like it. It is not my personal wishlist; these are merely suggestions for others]
I was at ATLoft over lunch yesterday, taking a trip outside my normal shopping comfort zone. And I'm glad I did, because I saw this totally adorable necklace that was just begging to be worn at a holiday party near you. The ribbon tie makes it even more delightful.
@ Available in more colors (but I'm a major fan of the clear one).
